Wishful thinking

Looks like my stalker would like to see my blog gone. Sorry to disappoint but WP has not removed it. Unlike some people, I have a life that sometimes gets in the way of writing blogs. If you have nothing to do but harass others and denigrate others I guess this is all you have. Sorry to inform you my blog has not been removed it is very much alive. Maybe your blog should find something more interesting than me to discuss.

Stop making such an ass of yourself.

donkey's ass

 

Shattered mind

Her break with reality is complete

Her mind has met defeat.

She skitters to and fro

Nowhere to go

But down and down

Into the abyss

Where all is amiss.

Shattered mind, empty soul

Destroys her role

As lover so divine

Vixen so sublime.

You see she looked too close

Saw the future as it arose

Around her

Inside her

To bind her

To her shattered mind.

Green Eyed Monster

It grabs you silently by the heart

Gives you a sudden start.

Fending off yet another

Possible, maybe lover.

Sexting, email all are suspect

Loss of all your own self-respect.

Chase them down give them misery

Such is your sad history.

Look in the mirror long and hard

Shatter your love shard by shard.

Can’t admit it is he that he cheated

and made your love defeated.

The list goes on and on it seems

Shatters all your dreams.

The spikey tail of jealousy and its’ sting

You cannot cope, you cannot bring

Yourself to understand your love

Is not a sweet and gentle dove

But a poorly disguised rat

and it isn’t the others that

Betrayed you.

Dismayed you.

It was the viper in your breast

That destroyed your little nest.

 

 

Evil

Evil lurks

It twists and bends

Spreads hatred and misery

Cloaks itself like close friends

Reveals itself in history.

The Ides of March march on

and the evil reveals

Launches itself

on souls and steals

All goodness and light

Lives in spite and terror

Can’t look into the mirror

Or it will be destroyed

by its’ own black soul.

 

 

Old friend Jill

monsters

Delusional and infantile

Crawling with self-importance

Living inside your own mind

Where no one or nothing else matters.

They have seen you the anonymous

Eaten you whole

Left only the carcass

Of someone we used to know.

Look inside yourself

Find the hollow

empty shell of

who you used to be.

Goodbye old friend

Sad to say we never were

You lived with the monster

Inside yourself and

IT WON.

She kept him in a cage

Photo: Don Cristobal,   NYC. Photograph: © 2010 Richard Termine PHOTO CREDIT - Richard Termine

Photo: Don Cristobal,
NYC. Photograph: © 2010 Richard Termine
PHOTO CREDIT – Richard Termine

She put him in a cage.

Trapped and only hers.

Used him for her rage.

Possession for her urge,

To dominate her toy.

To crack and destroy.

Until one day,

He escaped ran away.

Found another one

A new life was begun.

She stalks him still it seems.

In life and in her dreams.

Injected him with cyanide.

For her unlimited pride,

Won’t ever let him go.

Don’t you know,

Once trapped by a narcissist,

a vicious life ensues,

And forever more,

You will pay her your dues.

With blood and mind

with heat and time.

There is no escape,

From this vicious ape.

Thanks for the negativity

97017-o-2

Funny how negativity works. My friends and I have been targeted for some time by a lunatic. You can see her tags about me and others if you google Gale Molinari. I supposedly am a bully. I invite you to go through my blog and Facebook page and find any bullying. I am a defender of those being bullied including victims of this nut. This resulted in her attacks on me as well as the defamation of a very good woman and of several of my other friends.

Another case is Opinionated Man/Harsh Reality has also been tagged by another character and now he has closed his blog. I don’t know if those attacks were the reason, but they got pretty personal in his case. Damn shame as he was a great supporter of other bloggers and wrote some brilliant stuff.

I was very upset to see my name all over the internet being tagged as a bully. I have contacted Word Press and their answer is without a court order they will do nothing. As my troll is in another country there is no chance of that even though she has been cautioned in her own country about this sort of behavior. It seems you can post whatever nonsense and defamation you please on Word Press and other social media sites without a care if you are in another country from your victim.

The funny thing is that because of these awful tags my blog along with my friends blogs are getting more traffic and evidently the traffic likes what they see as my stats and my friends are shooting up like crazy. So my advice to anyone that is bothered by a troll like mine is just ride with it and enjoy the free advertising. We can’t stop them but when people click they find your blog.

troll queen red

So thanks my little troll queen and minion. I am really enjoying the stats. By the way, the latest post resulted in twenty more followers. If I decide to write that book of poetry perhaps you would be kind enough to trash it so more people read it.

Who is the Bully what makes people do it? Are they Narcissists? Sociopaths or both?

bullied Miley Cyrus

http://www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/

Why do people do it? All kinds of people are victims. Even celebrities some of those more than others because of envy. They come from everywhere, all ages, genders, races and cultures. Sometimes they are people that have lost control in their lives so they can only find it in controlling and bullying others. Other times it is a way to fit in. Funny how a bully once they lose backup will fade away or back off. Others this is power and a way to get respect which they cannot get any other way. Fear is the only thing they know that gives them that respect. Others follow or friend a bully so they don’t become their target. Isolation is the weapon a bully uses. If another person is perceived as a loner or has few friends it sets them up to be bullied, Other times they come from homes where they are abused, ignored or are in chaos. They have no value at home so look for it in unhealthy or inappropriate ways. Many bullies end up using drugs or alcohol to subdue their pain.

Sometimes it is just that the person is mean an cruel that only feels good when they attack and cause others pain or harm. It is usually a pattern their whole lives. The odd thing is that new research has shown that bullies have excellent self esteem. They lack compassion, impulse control and social skills. Many are sociopaths and narcissists that can only feel by being extreme. The target is just that. Not a person but an object for them to ridicule or physically attack to make themselves feel anything.

Bullies have many aspects in common. They have a dominant manner and cast blame for the bad things in their life upon others. This is typical narcissistic behavior. The sociopath does it just for the sport and the target may even start out as a close friend or associate. The bully will build the person up and then tear them down for entertainment. Some people are predisposed to violence and aggression. While a lot of people are these are the ones that do not find healthy outlets for those predispositions.

People in the bully’s life also have an effect on their behavior. They may have a family that doesn’t care about them. On the other hand they may have parents that have become afraid of them and give in so they do not become the targets of their aggression. Discipline is either inconsistent or completely absent. When this happens the bully feels that there are no consequences to their behavior. It can be a matter of nature overcoming nurture. Another thing they have in common is they are attention seekers. Even if the attention is negative it is attention and that is what they crave. They never internalize rules or conduct or respect for any authority. So they run completely amok causing damage wherever they go until they finally go too far with the wrong person or get incarcerated for a crime against their victims.

Social media has made it easier for these people to do their bullying. Adults are bullied, children, even babies are made fun of because of their race or their looks. There are websites set up for just this purpose. The only way we can fight them and make people safe is to isolate them, make them know this behavior isn’t acceptable. Block them on social media if you see someone bullying someone else speak up. As a society we can protect the vulnerable. Help them find a safe place away from these twisted souls.

Protect from cyberbullying

NO ONE DESERVES TO BE BULLIED. SPEAK OUT. REPORT BULLYING TO AUTHORITIES AND TEACH KIDS HOW TO PROTECT THEMSELVES.