Self Respect

self respect and worth

It amazes me the lack of self respect among some people particularly women. I see Facebook profiles and covers that would make a hooker blush but somehow these seem to be a matter of pride. Just how raunchy can someone get seems to be the goal. One a middle aged married woman seems to think that this is fun. I assume either her husband left her and she is shopping for another or she really doesn’t respect him either. Others are young women that really don’t know any better and have no idea what self respect means. It is very sad that the only way they can get attention is by flaunting body parts that everyone has. There is no thought to the idea that these are public displays. Employers and everyone else on the planet sees these. I am not sure about other countries but in the US it is now common for Human Resource departments to Google candidates for jobs. Don’t know what jobs these women are looking for but unless it is the Bunny Ranch in Vegas I think they may be out of luck. Facebook is a wonderful social media platform to meet friends and to promote causes and interests. It is a shame that people like this like to use it as a platform for their own prurient interests.

No wonder young people end up being stalked by pedophiles and young women minding their own business are hit on by the proverbial dirty old men with these kinds of people.

The take away from this is that your social profile is your introduction to the world. Do you really want people to think that all you are is someone with nothing better to do than flash them?? I guess the rest of us just need to block people that think crotch shots are cool profile pictures.


  1. Embracing Madness · April 21, 2015

    I notice a lot of this myself and immediately unfriend or block someone who has profile pictures like that or just posts pictures like that in general. I have much better things to do with my time then look at soft porn on Facebook.


    • Gale A. Molinari · April 21, 2015

      FB doesn’t seem to have a problem with it either. I don’t know why anyone would have that as a profile pic but I guess that is what they want people to know about them. Must be pretty boring.

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  2. ally1lakeside · April 22, 2015

    I see pictures on profiles and wonder why anyone would use those sort of pictures. Some are soft porn, some rather close to the knuckle but either way not something any self-respecting woman would use. Whether they see it as the norm, or are attention seeking I have no idea. I understand we are all entitled to our own opinions but sometimes self-respect has to ensue.

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    • Gale A. Molinari · April 22, 2015

      Poor things must be starved for attention is the only thing I can figure.


  3. M&M, Inc. · April 22, 2015

    Reblogged this on Phoenix Rising From the Ashes and commented:
    It is very sad when people think sex is what will get them attention. Your so right Gale, flaunting such body parts WILL ONLY get you the wrong attenton and unfortunately, sometimes even worse… careful how you portray yourself on social media sites, you may not like the attention you get!

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  4. Gale A. Molinari · April 21, 2016

    Reblogged this on galesmind and commented:

    Still so true


  5. marilynmunrow · April 21, 2016

    Reblogged this on Marilyn Munrow and commented:
    Stupidity cannot be fixed. Maybe this can be explained when the woman is very young. Middle age should be a woman’s prime, not a time to act like a piece of gutter trash. Get a life. Get some morals and keep your mouth shut you imbecile. Great post Galesmind as usual

    Liked by 1 person

  6. marilynmunrow · April 21, 2016

    Never changes sugar. Either too stubborn or too sick in the head to grow up

    Liked by 1 person

    • Gale A. Molinari · April 21, 2016

      Oh yes thank you for the reblog. Some people just aren’t brought up to respect themselves. Sad really.

      Liked by 1 person

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