If you choose to stay with your narcissist…

Wise as ever but I have a question. Not all narcissists are the same. Her husband isn’t as bad as some and is a bit childlike. He is handsome and charming when he chooses. (Yes I saw his film). But aren’t there other types that are malignant could they not be dangerous?

Lucky Otters Haven

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Lidija Rangelovska (Sam Vaknin’s wife) recently wrote about staying with her narcissistic husband and how she handles him.

My view, my principle…
People, unconsciously, but more often intentionally, complicate their lives in order to make some sense of their existence and to justify their actions. Me included. We are all, as my FB friend put it: “personal strength junkies”, who try so hard to be accepted and to belong. It comes from our upbringing, our unstable environment, and the fear of being alone. So, when we find a person that loves us or shows us affection, we are “hooked” and we won’t give up on that person. But we also don’t want to compromise, we want to keep our freedom and to have control over the other. And what now? It’s simple: we have to adapt to the changes and find a new meaning in life!
For me personally freedom…

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