One of the things I really don’t understand is sexting and why someone would compromise a committed relationship to do it. To me cheating is cheating. If someone sends pictures it isn’t just flirting it is sharing something that belongs to a person you are committed to. Some people can’t deal with the fact that they are in a relationship with a cheater so they make excuses. It is only sexting, it is the other persons fault if he (she) didn’t chase after my significant other they wouldn’t do these behaviors.
Sorry no one can make someone cheat on you. Put that blame where it belongs. Face the facts. If you do this think about it. You are putting very embarrassing stuff out there that will be the other person’s property forever it can be used against you to ruin your relationship. Is it really worth it?
How do you feel? I have been married for a very long time. This has never been an issue nor has any form of cheating. I really can’t have a person around me that I can’t trust. If that had happened it would be adios muchachos.
Perhaps I am out of step with the times is sexting just flirting? Is it ok if it is just words and someone doesn’t send pictures of things that are private? How would you feel if your partner did this? Would you do it? Is it the thrill of the forbidden?
What if you make the person angry you are sexting aren’t you taking a huge chance??
In the end I really think it is a dangerous silly thing to do. I really would like your thoughts on as I think it is an interesting subject.
Thanks for reading!!